
VAN DER HEYDEN, Paul Amil
Aged 61 years
In loving memory.
Dearly loved father of Ethan and Madison.
Brother of Michael, Mary (dec.) Anthony and Eileen (dec.).
Son of Harry and Theresa (both dec.).
A loving father, kind friend and a great man.
Though gone too soon, his memory will be cherished forever in our hearts.
We love you Dad.
*****
The Funeral Liturgy for PAUL will be held at St Joseph’s Catholic Church,
23 Hamilton Street, Timboon on MONDAY (March 31) commencing at 1.00pm.
The cortège will leave the Church at the conclusion of the Funeral Liturgy
for the Scotts Creek Cemetery.
Please click this link to view the livestream of Paul's Funeral Liturgy.
Tributes
Leave a tributeOur sincere condolences to Ethan and Madison. We will miss your Dad's lovely handwritten notes in our money jar for pinecones at our farm gate. His notes, treats and generosity were very much appreciated by the girls and we would often talk about how we could pay back his generosity. I enjoyed my chats with your Dad if I was out working in the garden when he dropped by. Your Dad spoke with REAL love and pride about you both. I remember Paul speaking about your study Madison and one conversation he mentioned driving to meet you and bring you home Madison when you were coming across from Adelaide. I mentioned how kind he was to do so and he said he would rather bring you home than have you driving through kangaroo country on your own. Paul mentioned that you helped him work the farm Ethan, but that you also worked on the wind farms. He was proud of how much of a hard worker you are. Your Dad was a lovely, kind, caring man and a real gentleman. Gone way to early. We cannot be there on Monday but our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
March 30, 2025 11:17 pm
Paul, your stories, kindness and humour will live on within your children, thank you for always making me feel so welcome at your home and thank you for raising an amazing daughter so I call my best friend.
You will be missed, rest easy.March 27, 2025 3:33 pm
Madi and Ethan, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. He sounded like a great man 💕 rest in peace Paul. Love to you both, and to your extended family xx
March 27, 2025 3:24 pm
A big condolences to Madi and family. Big love and strength to you x
March 26, 2025 7:57 pm
Mate , can’t believe you’re gone!,
The cold winter days spent working in Bass strait and then the hot summer days in Darwin ,we have shared some fun times and great memoriesAnd after you promised , you still didn’t make it up to Queensland after saying the last 30 years I’ll come up soon.
Loved the long phone catch up’s , and the updates from you regarding Ethan and Maddie you were so proud of their accomplishmentsRIP
Thoughts are with those you leave behind
Dave and MichelleMarch 25, 2025 2:38 pm
In Loving Memory of Poe
An awesome mate from his Darwin days in the early 90’s. Poe’s kindness, humour and unwavering friendship left a lasting impact on all who had the privilege of knowing him. As did his looooonnnngggggg stories.
His time in Darwin was filled with fun, mischief & laughter, and moments that will forever be treasured by those whose lives he touched.
Sending our love to Ethan & Madison, and families.
Dennis & Jeanette O’Brien and family, Trish Murray and family.
Rest in peace, Poe.March 25, 2025 11:34 am
Saddened to hear.
RIP Paul
Will miss your many visits to TOPS
Holding you /family in my thoughts and prayers
Sincerely
Enid & Terry O’ConnorMarch 24, 2025 10:52 am
