Paul Amil VAN DER HEYDEN

Aged 61 years

In loving memory.

Dearly loved father of Ethan and Madison.

Brother of Michael, Mary (dec.) Anthony and Eileen (dec.).

Son of Harry and Theresa (both dec.).

A loving father, kind friend and a great man.

Though gone too soon, his memory will be cherished forever in our hearts.
We love you Dad.

*****

The Funeral Liturgy for PAUL will be held at St Joseph’s Catholic Church,

23 Hamilton Street, Timboon on MONDAY (March 31) commencing at 1.00pm.

The cortège will leave the Church at the conclusion of the Funeral Liturgy

for the Scotts Creek Cemetery.

Please click this link to view the livestream of Paul’s Funeral Liturgy.

 

 

Funeral Notice

ServiceMarch 31, 2025 - 1:00 pmHamilton Street Timboon, VIC View MapVenue: St Joseph's Catholic Church

Tributes

  1. Our sincere condolences to Ethan and Madison. We will miss your Dad’s lovely handwritten notes in our money jar for pinecones at our farm gate. His notes, treats and generosity were very much appreciated by the girls and we would often talk about how we could pay back his generosity. I enjoyed my chats with your Dad if I was out working in the garden when he dropped by. Your Dad spoke with REAL love and pride about you both. I remember Paul speaking about your study Madison and one conversation he mentioned driving to meet you and bring you home Madison when you were coming across from Adelaide. I mentioned how kind he was to do so and he said he would rather bring you home than have you driving through kangaroo country on your own. Paul mentioned that you helped him work the farm Ethan, but that you also worked on the wind farms. He was proud of how much of a hard worker you are. Your Dad was a lovely, kind, caring man and a real gentleman. Gone way to early. We cannot be there on Monday but our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

    Caroline McGowan March 30, 2025
  2. Paul, your stories, kindness and humour will live on within your children, thank you for always making me feel so welcome at your home and thank you for raising an amazing daughter so I call my best friend.
    You will be missed, rest easy.

    Liana March 27, 2025
  3. Madi and Ethan, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. He sounded like a great man 💕 rest in peace Paul. Love to you both, and to your extended family xx

    Maddie Robertson March 27, 2025
  4. A big condolences to Madi and family. Big love and strength to you x

    Karen March 26, 2025
  5. Mate , can’t believe you’re gone!,
    The cold winter days spent working in Bass strait and then the hot summer days in Darwin ,we have shared some fun times and great memories

    And after you promised , you still didn’t make it up to Queensland after saying the last 30 years I’ll come up soon.
    Loved the long phone catch up’s , and the updates from you regarding Ethan and Maddie you were so proud of their accomplishments

    RIP
    Thoughts are with those you leave behind
    Dave and Michelle

    Dave and Michelle Atkins March 25, 2025
  6. In Loving Memory of Poe
    An awesome mate from his Darwin days in the early 90’s. Poe’s kindness, humour and unwavering friendship left a lasting impact on all who had the privilege of knowing him. As did his looooonnnngggggg stories.
    His time in Darwin was filled with fun, mischief & laughter, and moments that will forever be treasured by those whose lives he touched.
    Sending our love to Ethan & Madison, and families.
    Dennis & Jeanette O’Brien and family, Trish Murray and family.
    Rest in peace, Poe.

    Jeanette O'Brien March 25, 2025
  7. Saddened to hear.
    RIP Paul
    Will miss your many visits to TOPS
    Holding you /family in my thoughts and prayers
    Sincerely
    Enid & Terry O’Connor

    Enid O’Connor March 24, 2025